We live in a materialistic world and we all are utilitarian by nature therefore we prefer BMWs, Vero Moda , ray bans et al. This fact puts me off really !
I’d call it ex-situ development of human beings and human needs
Lately, very lately I am answering questions from out of my very own syllabus like have you spent money on you? You’re looking great ! wow! Really?
Haah! You’ve become a girl and again its wow! Really?
Thus I conclude, putting a thick layer of an eyeliner, a gloss, a attire that keeps falling either from the shoulder or exposes the evidence of being a female makes you a woman and if you go around wearing a loose T, a men’s boxers flaunting those two buttons in front which are nothing but a convenient outlet for the birdie thing you are biologically a woman but socially a man.
Are we understanding liberty and equality ?
I don’t have a pretty face, and my figure
will never force you to assume that I am surviving on diet food, I have a
chicken belly and if you have a problem then walk alone I don’t give a damn! I wear
loose T-shirts and mismatch them with any color shoes and denim. So if people think I have no dressing sense or I can’t carry those “gurlie”
dresses because I have no protruding
bums then there are fellow people on road and I wouldn’t mind anyone noticing
them ( till I finish eating or drinking).
Well, this by far is the biggest irony
of a materialistic world. We say I don’t give a damn in our heads a zillion
times but at last submit to the requirements of the world. I being no difference, Repetitive sermon forces upon you the
collective decisions of the world you often kept yourself aloof of. I started wearing
liners, gloss, girlie clothes, and accessories without bothering about the
suffocation my soul felt in my body. A compliment here and there just adds to the
glorified misery of people like me who are not born with the innate ability to
look attractive always.
The central idea is not “ME” it’s “US”. Talk
to anyone, we are all morally so high that heart is the first thing that
matters to us unfortunately it is words we all fall for. The beauty of the heart
gets subsided by the beauty of wealth and materialistic pursuits of life. Can’t
we accept a plump man as a human being first? Is it obligatory for a girl to
fit in the fantasised definition that men have evolved for them?
A good standard of living is an index for
economic growth only let us not indulge into economics when we talk about
people who love us .Sometimes just sometimes the most good looking people(we
perceive them as good looking) inflict upon us the gravest wounds which are
often healed by the simplicity of a warm behaviour. If it is heart that really
matters let it be only heart that matters.
P.S: As easy it is to get cheated in love
as difficult it is to fall and then stay in love. A man with a sexy body is
only an attraction. It is the mental connect that gives the pleasure if being
complete.
Signing off
Srishti :)